Every grant professional hears it eventually.
“We won this grant because of my relationship.”
It’s often said casually. Sometimes defensively. And it nearly always feels like a dismissal- not just of the single win, but of the expertise, strategy, and discipline that go into professional grant writing.
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Let’s be clear: relationships matter. They always have, and relationships make grant awards more likely.
Funders want trust, alignment, and credibility. But relationships do not write proposals. They don’t build logic models, align budgets, translate programs into funder language, or meet increasingly complex compliance requirements.
Grant writers do that.
Winning funding is the result of research, positioning, storytelling, data, strategy- executed under tight deadlines and evolving funder expectations. Relationships open doors, and skill walks through the doors to deliver results.
When a win is reduced to “who you know,” it reinforces a dangerous myth- that grant writing is luck, proximity, or favoritism rather than a profession built on expertise. That myth hurts everyone: grant professionals, organizations, and even funders who depend on strong proposals to make informed decisions.
How do we cope with this:
- Ground ourselves in facts. Funders decline proposals from organizations they know well. If the proposal were not clear, compelling, and aligned, it would not have been funded.
- Document our impact. Wins, progress, feedback, and growth tell a collective story that doesn’t depend on someone else’s perception.
- Keep showing up as professionals. Invest in continuing growth, advocate for the value of our work, and remember that credibility isn’t borrowed- it is built.
If you have ever had your credibility or skill discounted, you’re not alone. We work in a field where our labor is essential, but invisible.
Let’s keep doing the work because we know the difference we make.
Happy Holidays!
Until next time,
Write Epic Grants